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Advice on FB/FWB..

January 12 2011

I’m a single dad to 3 kids – they live with me full time, only visiting their mother every second weekend. That kind of limits my free time somewhat.. On top of that, I’m hoping to move to Melbourne (where I come from) within the next few months and should know something more definite sometime in March. So, to me, that rules out getting involved in a relationship – don’t want to break anyone’s heart....or my own :-) I’ve never had anything that could be called casual, FB, or FWB, and I’m not sure where or how to start something like that, or even if I’d like it. Like the title says, just looking for some advice..

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RHP User

15 years ago

That when you are free...look up the Events page and go to a Meet & Greet night... From what I have heard they are a great way to meet people...especially from the Forums! Umm don't go into anything thinking that you will SCORE on the first meet! If you do score and the chemistry is there... Just let them know from the get-go that you are only looking for a FB or FWB situation! All I got at the moment, sorry! I wish you the best with your move and hope it all works out for you! xFunlovingx

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RHP User

15 years ago

Child care centre and mother's groups. Tap into the source bebe. :p Hmmm... Can I borrow one of your kids? :pHUgsStalky

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RHP User

15 years ago

My thoughts (and echoing above comments)...talk/chat first, to lots of lovely ladies. Don't do the "She's not my type so I won't talk to her"...because in talking to lots of people, you get to know yourself better and the type of person you want to meet. . It is the internet and therefore subject to third party rudeness, ie: you send a message and either no response or something more unsavoury. Just put it down to "the computer said no". . Write messages with transparency and honesty (but you don't need to tell everything) - that way, you have a clear conscience that you are hiding nothing and if they don't believe you, it's their issue. . When you do find someone you really like, ask them if you can call them on the phone. You will soon know if there is a click worth persuing. . And lastly, have no expectations...then everything will be a pleasant surprise! . As for a FB or FWB....just remember, a lovely lady out there is also wanting the same. You just have to find her :)

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RHP User

15 years ago

im in the same boat i only play once a fortnight when i can find someone to turn up its hard but if your honest about what your after right from the start then you shouldnt have a problem plus like funloving said the meet and greets are a great way to meet lots of people but ignore Stalky...dont go near the schools or child care centre's well not the ones your kids attend anyway hehehe roxxy...good luck

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RHP User

15 years ago

lol thats like two and a half men! in the early days..

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RHP User

15 years ago

Firstly its like the Lotto You Have To Be In It To Whin It. So go to the meet and greets or contact woman with the Upfront infor of No Strings. Plenty of people on here who want all differant things. If you want a relationship same thing goes But unless you put yourself out there Nothing Will Change. And dont worry about take it as it comes

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RHP User

15 years ago

..for the advice xFunlovingx, Morticiaaa & TassieRose :-) @ Stalky... No way!! Make your own! :-P

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