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Constant bullshitters
April 19 2019
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RHP User
7 years ago
It’s easy, iam real no bullshit and time waster, been on you’re profile, flirted and sent a message with no reply, Iam a swinger of 20yrs and well experienced and versed in this lifestyle/alternative lifestyles
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RHP User
7 years ago
TeamK, I think your experience is too common. I had one like it where she hid stuff that - when I found out - ruined any chance of any further connection. While I accept that people on here will put their best side forward in order to give themselves the best chance of finding what they want, outright lying, especially of the type you describe is just not on. Hope you reported the guy. And hopefully he feels ashamed enough to stop doing it to anyone else (maybe that's hoping for too much...?). -S-
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RHP User
7 years ago
Hi there. What a ashole. You should give his partner a text message, so he dosnt do it again. If not he will find his next victim.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Whilst we see sex as transactional, you’ll always find people willing to do whatever it takes to sell their product....
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MsSuperFoxy
7 years ago
You didnt pick up on signals or red flags? Surely he would have given some away in the 6 months you knew him. You can not just put all accountibility onto him or shame him by calling him names (wanker) or write a ranting forum topic for others to agree with you both, when you two need to be accountable too. The only way to move forward is to thank him and learn from past mistakes as he has taught you how married people can be deceitful. Ms Foxy
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Tall74nHard9
7 years ago
Reasonably par for the course - not only here, but pretty much any adult site you may care to ponder.As mentioned above, people will put forward what they need to sell themselves to others. Some of it will be true, some not.Time and experience will help you out. Tall
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RHP User
7 years ago
it never ceased to amaze me how SOOO many of the guys across various adult/dating sites lied about a simple thing like their name.....and usually their height as well not to mention their relationship status. There's an abundance of men named Sam around these sites you know! They all seemed to choose that name, lol, I can't begin to tell you how many "Sams" I met, lol. My profile states I'm not meeting men online anymore and these reasons are exactly why. Too many liars. Sick and tired of all the lying about simple things. And there's no point because you will be discovered before too long. And men STILL message me asking to meet despite what my profile says. Haha, no way!Guys, you have yourselves to blame - you lied your way out of ever meeting me. Anyway........karma.
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usrightnow_Again
7 years ago
It happens, it happens a bit, it's happened to us. You just have to wade through and hope you find that diamond in the rough. We've known people who have had monumental lifetime lies. They can do real damage. The smaller ones are a pain in the arse and you have to work out if it's better to exclude those people from your life, like vamp. said. We tend to think and we've said it so often in the past, if you lie about a simple thing like your age, for instance, what else are you lying about or might you lie about. There are real and honest people out there, keep searching and best of luck. .. Mr. urn. .
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RHP User
7 years ago
Why would you expect him to tell you his real name? Relationship status is a completely different issue. I would have thought how someone behaves is what matters not his name. (Ms)
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RHP User
7 years ago
Is that you spent six months with someone who had a secret life.You must feel deeply hurt .Why do people do this ? The short answer is because they can.But every individual will have their own reasons,mostly they are bored or unhappy in their marriage ,but not always. I hope that you find a genuinely single guy that you can trust. Hugs Q
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RHP User
7 years ago
Some us are genuinely attached and genuinely permitted to play separately. If he is genuinely doing the dirty - then of course, I can understand why you would be annoyed. But don't tar all attached men with the same brush -some of us are genuine and not here to hurt people. Mind you - the amount of times I am perceived to be cheating or fake because my wife permits me to play separately is frustrating....and yes....it is the not so genuine ones that ruin it for the rest of us...sigh.
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Dirtyandfriendly
7 years ago
Yep it's like that out there. It's frustrating and annoying. A lot of men (not all) do that just to get a root, a few women I've spoken to have said that a lot will do that just to get some trim. I've spoken to some men and their attitude stinks. I currently have a fuckbuddy and the shit she's dealt with is disgusting. A lot will lie, he definitely not be the first or the last. Some are good at it and he got you. Not all men are like that, but a lot.
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RHP User
7 years ago
...is talking to the wrong end of the cow or bull or zebra. Shit......happens. ʗɱ ....wishing you happy hunting.
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nightingale8
7 years ago
In defense of the "bullshitter"... At the end of the day he's doing what works for him. It's called being effective. I doubt the intention to hurt was there and I would say if he's still able to provide for his family, treat you well, and get his needs met then that is a greater good. I've picked up when others have lied to me and if the good intention is there I allow that grace. I don't understand the need to police other people's relationships but that's me.
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