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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  If you meet for a drink/coffee/lunch/dinner first your exit plan is simple: Go home!! If we find ourselves with the meeting at our place or even at theirs our plan is just honesty - "Sorry, but we just don't feel it". Thankfully we haven't had to use that one yet. Having said that its just easier to not allow the situation to occur.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  We do ! We have a sign be both exhibit to each other if we feel uncomfortable about someone. We are yet to have to use it ...... now does that make us very lucky in that we have meet lots of sexy people oooooooooor are we just not that selective ........ oh bugger ! We do thou notice we have a "feeling" when someone just isn't right we don't need "the sign" we tend to look at each other, we smile and move along. No,we have never met anyone at our house or even a hotel room. We love the lotus and a like clubs because if it doesn't feel right its a little like speed dating we just move to the next table...... "oh now your much better ...........you've got no pants on!" Now that's a sign !. Oh our sign ...... what is it ?........... No way we're not telling you, how do we know if we like you? Brae and Sarah

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  RedHotCoast

  16 years ago

  After a few emails and seeing each others PG we chat on MSN. After that we webcam. By time we get to the meeting stage we know we like the other cpl and hopfully they like us too. Doing it via chat/webcam first saves a lot of time,money and hassle.

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Be honest and polite. If you don't feel the "vibe" just say so. Better that than waffling on or hmmming and ahhing.

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  usm79

  16 years ago

  Best to meet at a mututal location for a quick exit if required... either that or do the girly teenybopper thing and line up a fake phone call 10 minutes into the "date"... or our favourite...run away screaming "the goggles, they do nothing!" ;o)

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  Quoting 'sexshinecoast' After a few emails and seeing each others PG we chat on MSN. After that we webcam. By time we get to the meeting stage we know we like the other cpl and hopfully they like us too. Doing it via chat/webcam first saves a lot of time,money and hassle. We also find the chatting/web cam email approach is the best shot sadly even with this system we have met people and thought 'oh no it's just not there' so we always make the first meet a social (no expectations) dinner/drink type arrangement and if the vibe isn't there then say 'thanks had a great time just not feeling it sorry' no need to be rude but if it's not there then it just isn't going to be fun for anyone. we have made some great friends as a result that turns out we dont play with but really enjoy thier company and who knows? feelings change and sometimes it's the people you meet through others that leads to fun times too so really should never burn your bridges.Just my thoughts,Mrs GC Curious

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  RHP User

  16 years ago

  My meetings with couples often go like this Me to Her "If your right leg was Christmas and your left leg was Easter, can I cum between the holidays?" Her to Me *cold stare* Me to Her ""Are you tired?" Her to Me "No why?" *cold stare* Me to Her "Because you have been running around inside my head all night!" Her to Me *cold stare* Him to Me (returning from the bar with 2 drinks) "Hey what the f^&* are you doing talking to my Mrs?" Me "Nice chatting" as I slip off my high heels and get ready to run down the street (exit strategy). Admittedly these are for meetings of the 'unexpected' couple type :-)

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