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  PandaAndBri

  11 days ago

  It depends. If they are at their workplace, No. just a polite nod and message later. If they are out in the wild, not at work, if you feel comfortable and you are discreet, it might be ok. If they are with their kids, No, don’t. Privacy is very important. We have a phrase of, So are you still interested in Pie? That we have told other people to use with us if they see us in the wild.

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  Playfunx

  11 days ago

  No, unless it been discussed prior that it's okay. They could be with friends or family and its could just cause unnecessary awkwardness.

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  OpalRose

  11 days ago

  Unless you’re at a rhp sponsored event or a swingers/adult club then mind your own business and move on. We have had people recognise us a number of times. Including once at my place of work in front of all the staff, and when I said “I think you have the wrong person” he proceeded to “prove” it was me. Fuck right off with that bullshit. I know others have seen me in the wild and sent a message afterwards. Just don’t be a creep how you word that message. I had my drink spiked once and the next day had a guy on here reach out to say he’d seen me the previous night and would have more courage next time to ‘carry out his desires’. Wtf dude. Just because someone’s a member does not mean they want their private life interrupted by a guy who wants to fast track his way into a meet.

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  Nightglider

  10 days ago

  Each to their own with this one. If it were some random person from here who I hadn’t met before, then I’d be incredibly uncomfortable. Especially as a solo woman. It would feel a little predatory or stalker like to me. Above all, sensibility and discretion would be a basic hope. If I were at a swingers venue or party, totally ok. However, if I were with my kids, work colleagues or friends, hell no. The old saying feel the room to assess if it may be appropriate should be the employed here.

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  PartnersnCrime

  10 days ago

  Depending where you see me in real life. If its a nudist beach, by all means, come and say hi. But if it's at a conference or a morning school run, maybe better to drop me a message later 😀

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  MsSuperFoxy

  10 days ago

  Absolutely not! Please don't approach people in public, especially when they're with family, friends or their children. I've had it happen while I was out with my teenage daughter. It felt like a complete invasion of my privacy and put me in an incredibly uncomfortable position. I've also had it cross over in my work place too where the man tried slut shaming me because I said NO to him. One of the unwritten rules of this lifestyle is respecting people's privacy. Ms Foxy

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  Flirtydancer

  10 days ago

  Lifestyle or not, common courtesy, decency and respect would advocate no contact or acknowledgement if it hasn't been agreed to. Bizarre you would even have to ask this

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  Velve7duo

  10 days ago

  I wasn’t talking about sponsored events I would assume there would be a shared understanding that we would say hi. I’m talking about local park walk or walk arounds the suburbs and having a coffee. Of course when we are with the kids there would be a ABSOLUTE line in the sand about being said hello too. Thanks for the points of view And practical ice breaker when there is a shared familiarity of each other. Just curious about the governing rules of knowing what to if a run of the mill daily encounter happens I a normal day. And @opal so sorry that happened and WOW someone stepped into you worksplace and brought it up ? That’s a definite line also

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  nutsundae

  10 days ago

  The first rule of Fight Club is....

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  Temptress_T

  9 days ago

  For me, it depends on the situation. If I'm with other people (other than hubby), then a simple "Hi!" from a friend isn't an issue at all. Yelling across a crowded shopping centre, "OMG, I've seen you on Red Hot Pie!"... yeah, let's not. 😂 It's neither appropriate nor respectful. Some of my family, including my kids, know we're in the lifestyle, so I'm not hiding who I am. I also have some pretty unique tattoos, so I'm not exactly flying under the radar anyway. But I still think common sense needs to prevail. Discretion in public, non-lifestyle spaces is just basic respect for everyone involved. I'd love to see the lifestyle become as accepted as the current 100+ genders. Until then, maybe let's keep the public announcements to "Nice to see you!" and save the "Remember that time at..." stories for the club. 😉

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  Bam_Bams

  9 days ago

  I think a simple "Hi" is polite and ok in general public. Having a lifestyle conversation is probably not ok unless your with like minded company. Ive been ignored in public before which was a bit uncomfortable but also bailed on conversations because it was not safe for the situation.

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  seekandplay

  9 days ago

  I don’t even know how people remember faces from here to recognise them in real life (unless you actually know them, of course) You could tell me your name to my face and I won’t even remember it after 3.2 seconds

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  Pocketrocket602

  7 days ago

  Nope, don't EVER approach me in public! I guarantee you won't like the response. You're a stranger on a website and will get treated as such... with me yelling "Stranger danger" at you. I don't get embarrassed, so it's all on you, Just don't!

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