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Off my chest ..
November 14 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi Bella, you get what you ask for. So maybe up until now you needed all those lovers/encounters but you are now ready to move on. Maybe you need something a bit more meaningful or have a deeper connection with people?. Don't look back with regret, but look forward. Decide what you want and need now, and go for it. :)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Belladonna, you aren't asking too much.The number of lovers, high or low, is irrelevant.As both You and Meeka suggested you came and found what you needed to fill the void. If the day comes the void is full you can move on and find someone to permanently seal the missing holes in your life and make you feel complete.That person may or may not be found here in the land of Pie.I personally believe that you can find that special person on a site like RHP as you will come across a lot of compatible partners and some of them may be just right for you long term.You aren't asking too much... never lose hope.SG
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RHP User
12 years ago
(((((Hug))))).... - Posted from rhpmobile
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him_and_me
12 years ago
Quoting 'Mischeviouslad' (((((Hug))))).... - Posted from rhpmobile That's all I can offer too. Big hug from here.
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RHP User
12 years ago
will perhaps never be filled,but it may indeed shrink...just embrace the possible Bella..maybe you will find another love,maybe you wont...but I am sure there are people around you who love and care for you...there are many different permutations of love but we tend to fixate on romantic love...it's how we have been conditioned for the last few centuries...x R
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RHP User
12 years ago
...is a function of feeling UP. The contrast from one state as opposed to the other. From where you are, I can only see up as the next function.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I read that other post, but yours is far more touching and I was compelled to respond.I think I know how you feel. You yearn for that communion of souls. Has less to do with love than we think. Rather, it's about a nourishing reprieve from the world and our paranoia and mistrust of ourselves, and where we've come from, where we are, and where we're headed. Just the right kind of intimate support the right person can give. Sex, while climactic in the carnal expression of this, is only a part of it. Respect, genuine interest and gentle affection should always form part of an intimate relationship, no matter how brief. It's about human decency. Humanity and compassion. A lovely woman forced me to see that side to non-relationship sex. Intimacy is something generated from emotion and shared. You can't buy it off a shelf. It doesn't have to be about love either. And I find it more and more important as I get older. Makes the sex better too :)The reason I'm on this site is to find more experiences with like-minded people like that. No striving, no hiding, no manipulation. The best experiences for me here have been no kink, no novelties just pure naked sincere expression. It replenishes us, and sustains us more so.Be bold in your expectations woman! I do hope you find what you're looking for, and get the right emotional treatment you deserve. After all, a man can be like a chimp or gorilla and fuck like mad, but the best ones dig a little deeper with an intense tenderness.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bella darling, ya gotta love yourself first before anyone else. I understand what you're saying. {HUGS} FOXY- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
At least you won't die wondering because you gave it a good crack."Regret for the things we did can be tempered by time, it is regret for the things we did not do that is inconsolable."The grass always appears greener somewhere else ... and that remains true when you get there. Rest assured you can be in love and surrounded by people who love you and still be unhappy.“After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing,after all, as wanting.”
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RHP User
12 years ago
Now lets have a wine and solve the worlds problems
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know if I've been sick for a while I start over thinkng things and generally feeling poo poo. As soon as you can, get out and about. Enjoy the beautiful weather and surround yourself with those that love you. Do something kind for someone else. Pick yourself up, dust yourself off, buy a new pair of shoes and attack life with gusto! *hugs* from paintme.
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RHP User
12 years ago
As one of the greatest lyricist of all time once said - I'm coming to grips with my past... It was hard... I don't think what I did was so evil, I just felt like that the way I was living, and my mentality, was part of my progression to be a man. But we grow, we all grow, we're made to grow, you either evolve or you disappear - so keep your head up, do what you got to do - then inside you, I will be reborn - 2pac - murdered age 25 Live your life OP - Make the best of every new opportunity that you create moving forward :) - Posted from rhpmobile
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belladonna888
12 years ago
Thank you all, sometimes its just so hard to stay on top ! We all have our demons and so many of us have walked the same path .. Im just so so tired ...
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belladonna888
12 years ago
To stop bathing in the tub of self pity and just get on with it .. StSinner I wish we were closer, I would love to explore your mind, if only the forums had a like button ...
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RHP User
12 years ago
you are tired Bella,you have been ill...follow paintme's advice,be kind to yourself.Let other people help you,sometimes we don't allow others in because we don't want to be a burden.Last year I had a serious infection in my leg,it was in plaster for a while and I was amazed at the kindness of friends and colleagues. I realized that it wasn't just about helping me,they actually felt good about doing it. Hugs XX R
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