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Preferance for a type
November 24 2013
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RHP User
12 years ago
I want tall men too, to feel physically vulnerable with a man who can hold me down and throw me across the bed at will. . I'm not a small woman, and like to feel a bit more petite when with a guy. And I like to wear heels. Not into towering over a someone! .
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RHP User
12 years ago
Back in my shallow days I liked redheads who were tall and muscular... now a woman's appearance is a secondary bonus and the mental beauty of a woman is more important. So I guess my preferences for what is attractive to me have changed a lot over time.Probably why I love the forums so much... there are some women on here with gorgeous brains and beautiful hearts (and they have sexy bodies too... bonus!) . SG
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RHP User
12 years ago
I do have a few preferences.... I prefer over 5'8 I prefer no blonde hair and blue eyes I don't prefer skinny men. I prefer satirical wit I prefer a man too be more knowledgeable than me I like George Clooney though I cant have him
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RHP User
12 years ago
As I am out of the " breeding" cycle, I am now older and had the babies, I have to say my preference didn't change. The feeling towards a mate has, the desire to be with a man for ever and ever....has changed. Maybe its our generation born in the 50th and 60th, we had kids and family early, now we are free to have fun when ever we want, and the freedom to get laid from men we prefer. I am in a world of thought most of the time and trying to figure it out. I am not getting a hard on, as men would call it, by short men. Even i dont look for a mate, I still like the sex to be intimate, a bit messy, and funny. Even my body is not crash hot anymore being naked is much more comfortable as it ever was in my whole life, why is that? I have so many questions on being and getting older and sex, men around my age fascinate me. Are we having enough sex , are we getting more sexual and sensual with age, even we dont look like the magazine dolls? I am fantasizing of a world of love making.
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Enjoylifealways
12 years ago
Well with men i don't seem to have a type as such just a man who is a man and could protect me in a fight situation. With women i like curvy women not skinny models .
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RHP User
12 years ago
yes as you say over the years one kind of works out what are you naturally attracted to, it took me a while to realise that. i love: blue eye not sure what it is about them, but i can loose myself in them naturally feel attracted to fair skin, blonde hair, blue eyes ...we are talking ideals here lol skinny wit and a good open smile
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RHP User
12 years ago
I definitely agree a man taller than myself, women similar height, killer smile, confident, fun and fit but most of all someone that takes charge but will also back down when I want to be the boss ;) - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
12 years ago
About sex and old age, I don't know but I sure hope so. I would like to retire to a swinging village one day and continue to have fun. Why not ? :D My preference is usually for someone who is very cheeky and kinky. Also I am an absolute sucker for warm brown eyes that I can melt in.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Its a funny thing with likes....we just cant help it. However its very interesting only one man has written here. Hmm do men not have a preference? Or are they scared to admit to a type of woman?
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RHP User
12 years ago
I like fit, I like funny, cheeky and smart. What I really like is self confidence and something that I can't quite put a finger on but 'upstandingness' or being an honorable person comes close. Physically... Good looking?? Is good lol.
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RHP User
12 years ago
for me its personality and honesty looks body size doesn't matter sometimes the best things are in the most unlikely of places
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RHP User
12 years ago
(Mrs here) Prior to meeting Mr Wefuk I thought I had a type. My type had ended in disaster every time in the past after varying lengths of relationship time. When I first chatted to Mr I did check out his profile but I somehow neglected to look at or missed how tall he said he was. We had chatted for months on phone and online. I had seen him on cam. Everything seemed good and I was very attracted. I liked his intellect and outlook on life albeit a little scary for at the time conservative me as he was way more outgoing and into the swinging lifestyle than anyone I had known. So on stepping out of the car and realising that I was a fair bit taller than he was it fealt a little strange to start with but I said to myself: We get on well so far and he seems nice so lets see how it goes. Every other man I had ever been with was taller than me. After the first few minutes face to face I decided to go with the opposite of my type as the chemistry was right. So glad I did as he has brought a new way of living into my life and I am very happy after many years of heartache. In many ways he is the opposite of what I usually went for both in personality and looks. He may be short but is very masculine and dominant in all the right ways that please me. I was married to an alcoholic with no backbone due to the brain damage over indulging causes who was taller than me but way shorter as a man. Mr Wefuk's manly ways have been a breath of fresh air by comparison and he is way more of a man than many of those taller men out there. It's not the height of a man that makes him a good man or masculine. It's how he carries himself through life. One of the other members mentioned in her response words to the effect that she feels safer with a man that could protect her in a fight. God help the person who ever puts me in danger as my man is way competent in that arena with martial arts training behind him. So you don't have to be tall to win a fight either. I wasn't really part of the swinging scene at the time I met him and was experimenting with my new found single status and seeing what was out there. I doubt OP that your theory on your physical problem with short men is anything more than psychological barriers because my short man through either natural ability or all of that swinging experience has been a way better lover than any other man I have ever been with and it all boils down to the fact that he and I am sure other good lovers pay attention to women, learn from experience and retain knowledge and the skills to provide pleasure when fucking. He just knows what to do and it has nothing to do with height. It's not just me that has this opinion either. My gf's have also enjoyed time with him in play. Sometimes it's a good thing to step out of the square and try something different as like me that different man may bring something wonderful to your life that you never had before.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Aren't men genetically wired to appreciate or lust after the the hour glass figure.... As this is the sign of fertility?
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RHP User
12 years ago
simply about preferences and what you feel comfortable around.
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RHP User
12 years ago
No we arn't wired its the standard set by society or more overly the media if they banned blowbrush artists what would the womans magazines do. Horror they would have to print pictures real womansorry just be a little cynical
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RHP User
12 years ago
U women talk about how important it is to have a mental connection with a man, yet here u talk about the physical attraction....we are getting greedy now girls...its not wrong to want it all, but isn't it better to perfect the imperfections of a man...or is that just to tiring...Personally I give up wanting to know what it is about us men that attract u woman and what it is about u woman that attract us men to u......bring back the fun, stop drowning in the depth of it all...xknots And meeks I don't know wtf your on about...forgive my rudeness its not intentional. P.S. r we talking about the same thing here or have I lost the plot.
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Lovinit28andKC72
12 years ago
Love a tall man. Tall with dark hair even better. Tall, dark hair, strong arms, I'm in heaven. Tall, with dark hair, strong arms and green eyes, well that near perfection. Tall, dark hair, strong arms, green eyes, and can make me laugh, I'm theirs.....But tall with dark hair, strong arms, green eyes, can make me laugh and is as naughty as me well that is my fantasy and would crawl over a mile of broken glass to get to them.......asking to much you might say, a girl can dream.....
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1Featuredmember
12 years ago
there beautiful.... unfortunately here in oz they get such a hard time at school,once there older the hair gets dyed... such a shame when there's freckles to match (LE SIGH)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Bee in your bonnet today huh
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love a curvy short woman ! 5 foot and up to 5 foot 6
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RHP User
12 years ago
I prefer sexy over good looking. I like a guy talker than me. I am not fussed if he has or doesn't have a hairy chest I love a shaved head and goatee I do find some tatts sexy I like him to be intelligent and respectful
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RHP User
12 years ago
cuddly.
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RHP User
12 years ago
and strong arms to throw me around and wrestle.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I have not said I am only being with tall men, I just said it is my preference. We are not talking about falling in love...thats on a total different level. Loving a man is different as just being in LUST. The preference we or I am talking about is just sheer lust. I meet shorter men, I just find it is easier to have sexual intercourse with taller men.....why, I have no idea, couldl be because I am round and short......like a hobbit woman...lol and the lean tall man just fits like a clove. So knots thats all...I am quite friendly and loving to all the men i meet.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I think I have to re-think ....some people are better imagined in your bed than found there in the morning....P.J.O'Rourke
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1Featuredmember
12 years ago
true that........ the mornings iive wanted to chew my own arm off after a rave back in the 90s ......(shivers in disgust)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'inspirit' Bee in your bonnet today huh Terrible hey...spank me!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
Quoting 'Freya77'I think I have to re-think ....some people are better imagined in your bed than found there in the morning....P.J.O'Rourke You"re a shocker Frey....but so true.
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