M44

So called "couples"

June 27 2026

I’ve noticed lately that some profiles listed as MF couples have wording that makes me wonder whether the male half has created the profile without the knowledge or genuine consent of the female half. One profile I saw said they were looking for a guy to “rail her”, but also said she would need a lot of convincing in person and that he would be coordinating the meetings. That immediately raised red flags for me. Given consent is such a central focus in this lifestyle, I’m curious how others approach this. How do you weed out people who may be misrepresenting themselves as a couple or avoid situations where one partner may be unaware, pressured, or being coerced into something they haven’t genuinely agreed to?

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MsSuperFoxy

yesterday

Ignore, report, move on. 👍 Ms Foxy

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PandaAndBri

yesterday

I think you will find that some couples, the lifestyle push is one sided from the males view. If it is not fully embraced and possibly led (as in our case) by the female, that is where problems start. Unfortunately some women are still of the view of male dominance and aquessing to their partner’s desires regardless of their wants. I would suggest talking to both parties and confirming that it is 100% enthusiastic consent and if it’s not, then it’s a no. No matter what the make of the couple wants. Bri

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nutsundae

yesterday

Happens a lot. Either its just a single M (there is no partner) or M is partnered and she has no idea, or he is pushing it and she's not really on board. Of course, there are also plenty of times where she is very much on board, but lets her M arrange everything. Trust your gut, and if things progress toward a meet, insist that everyone involved speaks with each other prior.

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Everest

23 hours ago

It’s normally always just a catfish, so many on here but the established profiles with validations make it easy to spot them. Plus couples just talk a certain way, you know within the first 2 messages if you’re dealing with a fake

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The_Perfect_Pair

6 hours ago

a while back we were approached by a "couples" account and after a week of chatting he admitted that he and his partner had split but he kept the account and were we still keen. We reported him and never heard anything back.

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LandR202

-44 minutes ago

Ugh … as a solo female I stopped playing with couples after an occasion where the beautiful woman in a couple burst into tears after playing and fessed up that she was only doing this because her partner was pushing it… (they broke up shortly afterwards). But I guess that raised alarm bells about how genuine the interaction was… It’s not any easier as a couple profile tbh And I have no words of wisdom either… so yeah Good post … and I still don’t know where the Genuine/Fake line runs anymore

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