RHP

RHP User

M42

What am I doing wrong

January 28 2018

Other than being a single guy and a guest, I cannot really figure out why I’m not getting more interest. I’m smart good looking guy and in actual life i get much more attention. What am I doing wrong? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Your profile reads well and you have some great pics........... Nature of the beast on here. Everyone is vying for attention and harder for the single guys as the ratio of men to women is not great. Couples well.......... Good luck with your search hun

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Such is life on any site of this or singles dating site... We unfortunately greatly outnumber the females. And from my understanding, usually get flooded and overwhelmed with flirts and messages from guys.... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Nothing like a bit of shameless self promotion. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Nothing like a bit of shameless self promotion. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    And stands out compared to a lot of other guys on here but meander is right. If you don't have a membership so you can message first you're pretty much pissing in the wind.I can really empathize with you as I feel I can't really project myself online as I do in real life and the simple solution to that is to cut out the middle man. Make a few friends and try and attend parties that allow a few single guys. I know this is easier said than done as it's been on my "to do" list for a while but timing and work constraints haven't yet allowed it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    You aren’t getting any attention from men? That’s a surprise. I thought For sure you would have men hitting you up.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Also when you say you used condoms when required, lots of women assume that means you never use them. So if by that you mean you only certain types of activity perhaps you should clarify that. I’d say lots of men don’t care, but I believe that this does make a difference for women in general.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Dump this joint if you can get that attention in real life. Or obviously what Meander said.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    So you’ve met at least 9?? I’d say you’re doing fine given the fact you’re clearly new to Rhp... - Posted from rhpmobile

  • Sawadee

    Sawadee

    8 years ago

    I've been here for years , and I still havnt got a clear cut answer.. In RL I dont have that problem, so that's where I fish...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    If you have to say "I'm an Alpha male" Then you aren't.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    theres your problem ,,,your bi and a man ,,a lot of women shy away from bi guys ,,,how ever im surprised youv not got lots of attention from other men ,,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Expectations are mythical reality - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    A blind hog will find a few truffles if it keeps its nose in the dirt long enough. Sic 'em, Rex! 🐷🐷🐷 ....my hog is named Rex? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    What Meander said. Women are 'over represented' on RHP, and don't need to initiate contact or even search through profiles. And a lot don't look at flirts, even going so far as to block them... I am a case in point. Not sure that I entirely agree with blackmagicblonde about the bi aspect though. There's a fair few of us who see that as a plus 😊

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    8 years ago

    Someone loves their semicolons 🤣 Back on topic.... well worded profile. Good pics. I'm in agreeance with previous poster; being a self proclaimed Bi man I find it hard to believe you're not being inundated from males. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Nothing wrong with your profile, but as a female I believe I can speak on behalf of most women when I say that bisexual men are a turn off, we are reluctant to have cocks that have been inserted in men's bums near our mouths or vaginas. That may explain the lack of response to your profile. Good luck in your quest.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    you have included every possible meetwe are into couples and bi girls and not trans or MMIf you say you are smart????Yes pay up and send messages not flirts

  • RHP

    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Your profile is good enough. Personallly Bi men are a turn on for me. You mentioned attached in your profile, but provide no explanation whether this is an open arrangement or you are seeking “discreet” (blergh that word alone) encounters. I’d also loose the must haves in your seeking. Needs to be cute and sexy, yet have no body issues. A lot of women would be turned off by that expectation.