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why do people lie?!!

September 23 2013

I met a really nice man on this site about a year ago. Due to distance (he lives 4 hrs away) we became friends chatting by email and Skype. The one thing I am adamant about is that anyone I chat/flirt/etc is not in a relationship. My husband left me for another woman and I will never do that to another woman. We were incredibly compatible and when we finally met (after a year) the sexual tension was out of this world. I usually have some barriers up due to a not so nice past but within 5 minutes they were gone. Our meet was a picnic. After another couple of weeks of seriously flirting, emailing etc and then my driving up to stay in a beach town next to his I then find out that not only is he married but that he has 2 teenage children. He knew my past, he knew how much it hurt my teenage daughter so why the bloody hell would he do it to his own? I just don't get it. In the end the only reason he told me was because he felt guilty for leading me on and 'I was too nice a person to do that to' what a crock and what a bullshit excuse. He could have found others that don't have my hangups! I just don't get it! Can anyone please explain? - Posted from rhpmobile

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RHP User

12 years ago

Because we can , it beats telling the truth most times

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RHP User

12 years ago

I once went out with a man who had a baby seat in the back seat of his car. When I confronted him about it he said it was his brothers car. Who'd a thought? Did he really think I was that dumb?

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